Spartan women were pretty tough, too
One of the above
sections describes the rigorous training and harsh lifestyle that was the
lot of male Spartan citizens. But what about Sparta’s women?
Ironically, Spartan
women enjoyed more freedom than most of their counterparts elsewhere in
Greece. This wasn’t because Spartan men were uniquely enlightened in the
area of equal rights. Women in Sparta were freer than other Greek women
out of necessity. Their husbands and sons were constantly engaged in
training, fighting, or garrisoning Sparta’s forts in the conquered
territories. As a result, they could count on little male help with
household management. It would have therefore been impractical for Sparta
to sequester its wives, as was often the case in other Greek city-states.
Spartan women needed to be out and about, and they needed a certain degree
of autonomy. They simply couldn’t wait for their husbands to make
decisions on day-to-day matters.
Spartan women shared
the physical fitness ethic that was at the core of Sparta’s militaristic
values. Spartan girls and women engaged in athletic competitions in the
nude—a practice that was common for Greek men, but generally considered
inappropriate for women. The boldness and physical attainments of Spartan
women made them objects of fantasy and speculation in male imaginations
throughout Greece.
Spartan women were
not, however, renowned for their compassion and maternal instincts. On the
contrary, they were known to publicly belittle men who displayed
substandard valor in combat. This harshness extended even to their sons.
When a Spartan young man marched off to battle, his mother did not tell
him to be careful and keep his feet dry. Spartan mothers commonly sent
their sons off to war with the words: “Come back carrying your shield, or
on it.”